May or may not have a breath-play focused session today…
I was very much looking forward to it; rare and extreme kink + bonus fees = the best kind of session. I love it when I get to play hard or do something that rarely ever comes up, as with this guy who didn’t want just the lighter side of breath-play but harder.
A fellow domina and I were going to partner up on it.
…but it’s looking like he’s going to chicken out at the last minute. She sent him a confirmation email this morning, he read it and has not responded yet and it’s 40 minutes prior to the appointment.
The largest issue with this calling it the high # of no-shows.
Still, better that he skips out when I’ve not yet left home instead of how some leave you sitting at the meeting place without a word.
I don’t mind cancellations, just let me know (preferably 24 hours in advance, but anything is better than nothing).
On the bright side, I received an email from a sub I’ve been chatting with about a possible session when he’s in the area. The kinks of his are ones I find terribly fun and he’s been most courteous in our discussions, so I’m hoping things work out for a session tomorrow; he’s going to be in town. The delightfully fun kink? Sitting on him and ignoring him for hours. Ignore-play is a tremendous good time with the right person. Hahaha! Love it!
So, a frown on today’s would-be session not happening… but a smile on a possible one tomorrow. I’ve been looking forward to meeting up with the sub for tomorrow, so at least I also got good news today, too.
November 29, 2007 at 10:30 pm
I read three posts in your blog now: (1)A bit of a disappointment, (2) Hard and extreme players, and (3)this one, Breath play and ignoring.
I have always wondered how people are not sure of such steps in their lives. For me, I have done these only with the woman I am in love with, and therefore, there was never any doubt in our minds. I guess what I am trying to say is this:
People back out probably because the emotional depth and sense of security required is not there in them. Once that comes, they will submit to a skilled Dominatrix such as yourself completely.
By the way, yours is a wonderful blog. Keep writing!